A digital boho guide (including photo challenge) to taking self candid photos: sexpression, flirting, teasing, and more.

Dearest bohos,

I’ve been learning so much via Instagram. It’s been an amazing discovery, and I need to share my findings and I desire to learn from you. Now granted, I can’t be my desired expressive self on Instagram, you get deleted for that. However you bohos know that photo sharing your naked and or sexpressions on bohocrush are highly encouraged! And we have another site ( or two ) that will be just as encouraging. It’s time that we start sharing what we learn, so that those of you who are interested can start putting together the necessary tools you need to get your naked and or sexpressions on. I will announce a photo challenge at the end of this post. I’m looking forward to connecting with you, if you should choose to take this adventure. I know that some of you are just simply voyeurs, and we need you too. We all learn and enjoy our own way. It’s okay to look!

Now that we have established our freedoms and desires to be an exploring adult and now have a nurtured online playground coming along so well, it’s time to sharpen up our boho tools. I have been creating with my iphone, and using apps that I have been collecting over the past couple of years. A lot more lately. Some free, some are for purchase only. (I would love any kind of feedback that you guys can share about androids, blackberry, etc. I want others to benefit from resources that we all share.) However photos can be taken on any camera. I’m just merely sharing my experiences with my iphone.

Since we began this journey, I have always wanted my own camera. Not necessarily the big canon or nikon cameras that the professionals like to use. Sure, I will most likely get there someday, however in the past 5 years, I’ve not had an overly necessity. I like to use what I have today. For years I have taken photos on my iphone, I have captured behind the scene photos of our photo shoots, and had a lot of fun playing around.

I like my iphone because I usually always have it with me. Let me make a clear point, I DO NOT like to talk on the phone. I prefer emails, etc for communications. Even over texts. Texts are only for limited use. Skype when longer conversations are needed. I love my iphone for connections to my social networks. This is always the best way to reach me. I also in most part represent shone too. We operate this way. We are a small and fierce online team! It simply has to be this way so that we can accomplish our goals! We are very motivated and determined. Our motors are always charging full steam ahead. (24/7)

Ipads and iphones are the hottest on the market right now. I know that not everybody has one. yet.??? They are great online connection tools. This is no plug for apple, I love some of their products, I disagree with so much of their policies, especially in the adult world. They have our hands tied behind our back. These are the best tools that are available to us right now. With so many people supporting their platform, I hope that we all together use our voice and encourage apple to put out the most humane and planet endorsing products! We are strongest together.

I believe some time should be spent with your tools, getting to know how they work, what features you like the best etc. Social feedback and sharing is much appreciated, so I use my lifestyle and social networks as my muse. I’m over being deleted. I’m over resisting and casting disappointment. I’ve learned what my boundaries are online. This surrendering has made this adventure even more enjoyable and spectacular. I have learned that these same boundaries, when applied in my real world, are just as beneficial. Ie-knowing where and when to flash your boobies, and where and when is not.

*of course I would not feel this way were it not for the fact that bohocrush existed. I’m very grateful, and now making the best of everything!

iPhone apps

1. Camera +

One of my current favorite apps. It’s easy to use, and has many convenient functions. My highlights of app are:

-Timer: great for self poses: you get 5 seconds. I think timers are important when taking photos of yourself flirting with somebody on the other end. We need time to get in the flow . p.s the otter box iphone case comes with a great clip on, I am practicing with this currently. Gonna get one of shone’s tripods and one of his photo lights set up in my bedroom. I’m getting serious!! haha

-Strobe: stay on: great for in the moment mood catchers, when light and quality of photo is not the action that brought about the photo op!

♥ I used the strobe on (camera +) to light up my bath: I then edited using clarity (camera +), and vintage (snapseed)

♥ I used the strobe on (camera +) then altered the color (simply b & W)

-Clarity: love the enhanced definition it creates for photos

2. Snapseed

Another current favorite. I frequently go back between this app and camera + for all of my photo taking needs. My highlights of app are:

-The specific adjustments: selective, tune image, straighten

-I like the drama/vintage/grunge filters. I think it would help make what could have been a really hot photo gone sideways due to the nature of increased blood circulation look really amazing sexpressing is capturing the moments, and sometimes you’ve just got to make the best of what you get. Unless of course you have a photographer there doing the photos for you! (bohos are always to the rescue, and we keep expanding, and want to reach out to an area near you! help us spread the word)

3. Noir

I love this app for creating sultry moody photos. Play around with the features. You’ll quickly get the hang of it. If you want to seduce your lover, or potential online flirts, this should do the trick!

4. OrangeCam

I just recently got this app, and I really like the variety of filters and adjustments. I think some particular focused anatomy photos would be really cool and HOT! and such a tease.

INSERT YOUR IMAGINATION HERE!

5. Simply B&W

I want to be practicing more and more with my black and white photos. This app is giving me a lot more confidence. I will be doing a self portrait black and white/monochrome series. Perhaps for our galleries, perhaps for shone, perhaps, who knows! I’ve been gathering accessories…….one of our bohos glen has me now hooked on seamless stockings. I need me a pair from Wolford! They will become a great muse, oh yes they will.

6. Super Retro App

I totally dig the filters. Playing around with it the other day got me excited. I can imagine playing with my stockings with this app. The considerable amount of variations will make the less amount of accessories I currently desire look different in many ways, thus making the most out of what I have. I don’t like having lots of anything anymore. I’m constantly minimalizing. It makes life so much lighter and smoother.

I think that covers enough for now. I will continue to update as I learn more. I decided to start today, because I want to give everybody a chance to focus intentions before I announce a boho photo challenge to begin on Valentines Day. I figure..regardless if you are single, in a relationship: monogamous,poly,swinger oriented, we can all be each other’s valentines. We can all feel connected for an entire month of body photo challenges.

So far shone and I have been in a monogamous relationship, however the awareness and understandings we have received from these alternative lifestyles, especially as a couple have been so beneficial. Naked and Sexual energy can be shared harmlessly, without deceit, disloyalty, etc. Sharing sexual energy is not necessarily an open invitation. Every person/relationship has boundaries, and these boundaries can be discussed between participants when the mutual desire is shared. Otherwise, enjoy what each other offers, and just be good with that. Feel surrounded by others that just simply like to enjoy, and when a connection is made, make the most of it. Just don’t force it, have awareness of your sexual energy and be considerate on how you share it with others. This in my experience has been a very uplifting, nurturing, and essential part of this journey.

31 Day Challenge:

Some of you have seen the photo challenges on Instagram via third parties. I have seen these too, and feel that we might all benefit from a body photo challenge boho style. I want you to all feel included, so if you have any suggestions please leave in the comments. I will take into consideration all of your input and announce the 31 day body challenge on Feb 14th around 12am. (US Los Angelos Time). I think Valentines day will be providing some increased circulation and hormone distribution in our bodies, and we are all gonna feel like sexpressing A great way to start this photo challenge off! Glen, you and the rest of the aussie crew can get started properly. Lead the way like you always do!!!

For example, sexy ass photo: except in this case we are going to share the photo and share our method, so that we can all benefit from the lessons learned. Taking self body photos takes practice. There are to do’s, and not to do’s. I think we will all learn a whole lot!

You must be a member of bohocrush to participate in this challenge. Photos will only be posted ONLY on bohocrush. I do not wish to get anybody deleted. You should know that your membership helps us filter and nurture creative adult community with those 18 and over, and continues to assist us while we create without censorship from advertisements. We all benefit from a thriving and enriching online experience. The more the merrier!

By all means, follow our simple motto. “What can be done will be done”. Use what you have, the practice and repetition will provide you with and or strengthen your skills. These are simply suggestions from some current avenues I am exploring….apply your unique way always.

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xoxo
georgette

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