boho 101: collaborations…life is all about the collaborations
…..pulling out the boho dictionary: all capitalized words have boho definitions, please use them as you come across them in the readings. if you should choose to accept this mission 
boho COLLABORATIONS:
1. the light version:
* when our multiple and diverse energies come together and share into a central or focused project/adventure/lifestyle/event; putting forward our strengths and love and passion, each entity is participating on what they love to do the most (in otherwords their ultimate strength and passion: with LOVE, capability, follow through, and desire). A win win situation is achieved for all parties, sharing and caring, growing, and giving our best efforts to make the best outcome possible always.
2. a more in depth version:
* ENERGY is an essential and the founding element in the boho COLLABORATIONS. each entity is relied upon to bring their best and highest ENERGY to the adventures always. this ENERGY is available to flow throughout the entire process free and uninhibited. Sharing of this ENERGY is crucial. We focus on fluid transitions. We wish for a light and soft path. There is only so much we can all take on at one time. Let’s stay grounded, motivated, stay progressive, and always be ready and available to ROCK IT! It’s all about getting the juicy. When too much of this free ENERGY lands in one place, and is held there, this disrupts the flow. ( essentially NO EGOS allowed ) let’s all share and use the energy as optimal as possible, and keep it pumping through the lifeline of the group.
“give your more to receive your less” -shone
“argue for your limitations and they’re yours” -richard bach from the book Illusions
we highly recommend that book, and just so you know, we do not receive any endorsements from outside parties for anything that we promote on our blog ever 
if this should ever happen, we’ll let you know. we share our love, that is all.
* act upon your highest self, whatever level that is in the current moment, we are aware that this changes, we are aware that all of us are not perfect. take bumps gracefully, and get right back to the loving feeling
* in boho land we are all adults. once we hit 18 it’s all growing up from there. if we wish to be treated as an adult, then it is in our best interest to do our best to interact as an adult. I’ll share this one time, please refer to this post if you should forget: pitty parties, temper tantrums, lack of effort and compassion for the group, aggression (instant exit!!!) blaming others, purposeful slander and pain, putting other down, etc. is not acceptable. you may find yourself in receiving TOUGH LOVE and in more extreme cases released.
* boho time is a place to share, to live, to grow, to express, and to follow your bliss. to find and experience the best in ourselves. it takes practice, it takes commitment. We have dedicated this lifetime just so you know.
* put your best foot forward, COMMUNICATE, LISTEN, SHARE, and anything is possible. we choose to live a life full of passion, creation, connection, adventure, and LOVE. our boho plan is just about set in place, we have been building foundation and establishing magical connections over the past 3 years (boho is turning 3 in january!!!!)
boho ENERGY: a fluid and grounding transition that is not captured or held in boxes or limitations. foundation, connection, and respect added into any project creates MAGIK. energy is a founding element in our projects. doing our best to keep ourselves optimal for creative magnificence. sleep, nutrition, sex makes happy bohos!!! and magnificent collaborations. honor time and energy. spread out too thin trying to capture too much at once = fail
boho COMMUNICATE: feedback and methods of communication are essential, criticism and critique can be accomplished in a way that continually motivates and provides love for all, be aware of what it is that you need to communicate, be clear, use specifics, so that when a point of interaction can be established, time is spent efficiently, and is time well spent, so that we can all get back to creating and exploring.
boho LISTEN: “to be aware of when you are listening: if you are talking to someone and are already thinking about what you are going to say next, you are not listening.” -Miguel Ruiz Jr. stay focused, prepare notes, and discuss your thoughts, when it is your turn to discuss. the more we all can listen, the more we all use our time the most efficiently.
boho SHARING: sharing is caring, inspiration, love, tips, compassion, it’s all part of the bigger picture. no need to hold on tight, there is always plenty to go around when the entire group is sharing lead and live with compassion, be aware and react accordingly to emotional reactions. let’s keep rocking the light!
boho LOVE: establish your love, develop, nurture, honor, prioritize, connect into the life stream of LOVE, add too it, but do not deplete it, many of the bohos request cyber hugs on twitter when they need it. find your way to stay connected and return the LOVE when you can.
NO EGOS: we are all on equal grounds, we are all here to be a part of the works, effort and ability, confidence and follow through, walk the walk! connect into the doing and being. egos are an archaic comfort zone, step out and connect and grow. we are an evolution of community. a project or group is only as strong as it’s weakest link, all it takes is practice, let go of judgments on yourself and others. stay humble, stay vulnerable, develop necessary skill sets as needed.
boho TOUGH LOVE: we have a time out in our boho world. essentially we will step back for our time and space when certain actions have not benefited the group. actions that have been entirely too selfish pull and tug energy from our collaborations. we still LOVE you, we just need to honor our path just the same.
How To get out of TOUGH LOVE: otherwise known as time out
get back to being you, an evolved version. ( we all need to evolve, there are no fingers being pointed here) bring a willingness to listen, a willingness to observe, and put your time in to establish an energy flow again. The length of time outs are up to you. We’ll be here ready and waiting for open arms and big hugs when you return!!
(please know that we are all held to these guidelines. WE all stand on the same level. )
* creative, passionate, and pleasured earthlings/aliens treat ALL with love.
* and all of this is of course once the COLLABORATIONS have been established. many of you ask, how do I COLLABORATE with bohos? that is another post but at least this gives you some kind of idea, and also the most essential……..patience
is there anything that you would like to add, or inquire about? we are in a state of evolution, we listen, we grow, we share. feel free to leave a comment. (emails and phone calls are NOT an option, at this time.) we can discuss this here, or catch us if you can
may the force be with you
@gcrush and shone
we love to share things that have inspired our growth:
We love love love Don Miguel Ruiz:
enjoy first a love prayer, take some time, breath, then allow the four agreements to set it.
“Our evolution is not an evolution of individuals, it is an evolution of community”-black rock city allstars: Planet Crush
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Planet Crush – Black Rock City Allstars – Evolution from METAPHYSICAL on Vimeo.
For quite some time we have been connecting and sharing love and effort with metaphysical and the black rock city allstars. A journey that has been so magically delicious, has connected us to friends on so many deeper levels, and well, is just downright super amazing! I sit here writing this post today with so much love and appreciation, truly, it feels spectacular!
We are an evolution of community.
Have you downloaded your copy of the new gifted album Evolution yet? If you have not, we highly recommend it. A magical album with 25 songs I believe. All filled with heart and soul, sexiness, community, ability, and hope. I listen to this album all of the time. It truly rocks my world.
“I’m so excited. When I see the video and now I know and care about everyone, it’s become so much more than just a music video. Crazy!!!!” — metaphysical
Hope you get to catch one of their shows, it truly is a night you will never forget. Follow their myspace to stay up to date with upcoming shows.
And for some midweek fun, stop by a tuesday night at the amendment 21, the venue where all the magic began. The Black Rock city allstars host an open mic, starting at 10pm, 18+, no cover. Come one come all, enjoy some time filled with community and ability. I bartend, and you will most likely meet some or most of the crew that made this video possible.
Collaborations make the world go around! We are forever warm and fuzzy, and grateful.
follow the rainbows, butterflies, and bunnies
101 insights from georgette and shone about our adventures thus far with boho crush
shine the light always
☮ 1 we come and live in peace
☮ 2 we are living as creators, lovers, and business partners on this path, we are here to shine our light bright, to connect with rebellious minds, and to share with the wild and creative at heart. we seek compassionate and kind: aliens, clowns, vampires, shapeshifters, witches and werewolves, bi, straight, gay, poly, tranny, drag, goth, nerd, swinger, dork, hippie, glam, furry, pony, punk, unicorn, steam, hipster, surfer, super freak, shye, and bookworm (please help us add to this list)
☮ 3 we live each and every day as if it were our last: to awaken with amazement when the sun is rising and the day is calling: to pursue happiness
☮ 4 we welcome you to take part in the visual collaboration of conscious perversions, fantasies, and adult fairytales
☮ 5 we have been “live” on this path for 2 1/2 years now, working within limited resources, finances, and equipment: our business model and the strength of our ability continues to climb, as we live and love on this journey. these insights are what we are learning that works for us, these are our truths, seen through our bohemian eyes. In no way do we mean harm or undo to any of your truths on your journeys. this is simply the way we are living it, and we love to share. If any of these insights help you out along your way, awesome, however we are simply providing these insights as a way to strengthen our own path and to strengthen our learnings: we feel that life is perfect, in all of it’s magical and glorious imperfections. we simply critique to keep our path vibing along in a way that honors our truths, and our set limitations
☮ 6 we love this path and our minds to be challenged, we wish to constantly grow and evolve: to do this: we seek adventure, we seek passion, we seek community, we seek love, we seek kindness, we seek compassion, and we achieve higher levels of satisfaction the more sustainable and earth loving we are
—> It’s just what makes us tick we are not perfect, and we take it one day at a time. these are our truths
☮ 7 genuinely feeling and sharing the love and receving “i love you” is powerful! we always acknowledge our love……we tell it to each other all of the time: when we are together, when we are apart (rarely), while we are working, and even if we only have a few seconds, we share some kisses and send the love: it goes far and travels a long time
—> it sure beats wasting efforts on draining energies: jealousy, irritation, frustration: drama is never needed: no never we get back to the love,
enjoy life. we seek harmony always: so many amazing magically delicious adventures come out of love
☮ 8 we sleep and rest as necessary: we do our best to honor this each and every night, and it provides lots of time for snuggling we can achieve higher levels of creativity when our minds are peaceful and restful
☮ 9 *organization is key in all aspects of our life: we do our best to keep life balanced, doing small tasks everyday in each area of our adventures…… requires less energy and effort than trying to put huge unbalanced energy into a big project all at once. we are all human, (well most of us anyway) we only have so much time in a day to take care of tasks and to share love and also leave plenty of time for juicy delicious sexual adventures
—> at any point we highly welcome any alien vampire shapeshifter etc. point of view and insights: we’ll be here with open ears
—> for us organization = minimalization, optimalization, and synergy
☮ 10 reality shows have taught us this: give it your best always: why would you ever hold back? and if you are, take an honest look at where you are and adjust accordingly: leave the ego at home, and pitty parties don’t move you forward, they only hold you back: life is a challenge and obstacle for everybody: It’s all in the navigation, and we all need to spend more time learning how to navigate, so jump on board
☮ 11 we do our best to be aware of other peoples space and time, needs and interactions, we value others, and understand that time and availability is precious, and that it all varies for everybody. however, we live each day in a bohemian state of mind, and then it can quickly become aware that perhaps we have fallen off the face of the earth……..this is not the case………currently we are fully enriched in a project that is large for what our abilities are able to create: this causes us to dig deep into our trenches, pulling out and mustering all of the superhero power we can possible muster up: cause nobody else is going to do it for us, and we know that we have to, and if we are ever going to get this ship sailing the way we “see it” too: then we have to keep giving it everything we have: an artists mind is always trying to reach new levels of creation, it is in our blood: until we can put together the most super awesome superhero team to help us take this on, this is where it is, and we are willing and available for the adventure regardless
—> the reward comes from the patience
☮ 12 we are making the most out of our time, we are focused on filling it with inspiration, light, love, and enthusiasm…….. as humans (human nature) we can easily dwell on things that are not working, or making us sad, or irritating us, this however does not get us moving forward, this does not help us evolve and break through the layers. somethings don’t work because they are not meant nor were they ever meant to work, and we are learning not to force it: we accept life, live open and vulnerable, and live passion: the path illuminates when we are not resisting
☮ 13 we value our friendships in our inner sanctum…. values and conditions of life take time: this usually takes about a years time: we love friends, and honor the amount of time it requires to establish this, just as we did with ourselves when we met
☮ 14 we have compassion for each other and this path always: we are living the 24/7 fairytale, and follow the rainbows butterflies and bunnies to guide our way. we wish to inspire others to find their light, to make their lives the best ever: we all need and deserve a loving quality of life: we take the risks, make the steps, and live the life: we get out of our comfort zones and we make it happen
☮ 15 “argue for your limitations and they’re yours” – the book: illusions by richard bach
☮ 16 we stay honest and self reflective, we keep it all real, and value the messages that the universe are sending us: when things are not in order, the source is usually in some area of our own lifes order: they key is finding where it is, and doing our “housekeeping”
☮ 17 everything we learn and live and dream is everything we are trying to create in this world, an adult playground full of conscious adult adventures
☮ 18 our relationship is our priority: we take the time and the thoughts, the communication, and the sharing to get closer and build a deeper and meaningful connection: we share our fears, our dreams, our curiosities…. especially the sexual ones: we build foundation, one that allows each other to navigate in this world knowing and understanding how to honor each others love and what could hurt, and what feels good: anything is possible after this point: it’s all worth the effort
☮ 19 too many chiefs in the lead does not work. we learned how to listen, communicate and honor who makes the right and best decisions: once this is established (and at times it may vary), we understand each other and communicate over issues calmly and open mindedly: if we should find ourself in a position where there is too much going on, that poor decisions are being made because the communication to the leader has been broken, then we pull back, slow down, and establish balance: Wash…. rinse….. repeat, and soon we see it will all come more naturally
☮ 20 It is okay to agree to disagree, we have to let each other find our own path: for example: he a lefty, me a righty: he a man me a woman: he a taurus me a cancer:……sounds silly….but it can be conflicting unless we can allow free flow, and understand we have our own path: we honor our individuality, and mix it together like a magical chocolate and vanilla swirl milkshake
☮ 21 it’s not about having to prove we are right to each other: we can both be right at the same time, because we feel from what is right for us. for example: i write, he takes pictures, we both have unique perspectives: we both share our truths and seek inspiration for our path: share this and appreciate the dedication of each other
☮ 22 we give each other our best..and if we must vent be compassionate and allow opportunities for the release of energy …it is then really easy to get right back to the love vibes
☮ 23 we hold each other to a level of creative and productive efforts: this is our essence, this is who and what we are: we stay motivated and willing to take on each day and give it our best: every event we are a part of, every photoshoot, every task we do….. we analyze, point out the greatness, and then focus on what could be done better the next time: every single time: we discuss on a neutral platform, take notes, and adjust accordingly to honor the path: during these times we determine what areas to keep moving forward in, and what areas need a little more polishing and consistency and might need to hold back for a bit: quality quality quality
☮ 24 tough love is necessary: I call this “getting the horns”, and it serves it’s purpose with love, fairness, and unconditional love: we honor the reception and or the sharing of, and do it with superhero powers always: kindness, compassion, unconditionality, valuing highest selves
☮ 25 the clearer we understand what it is exactly what we want and don’t want, and can clearly communicate it, the universe provides: we are learning how to be specific and find the appropritate words that are needed and used to do this
☮ 26 feeling sorry for ourselves at any point only brings down both people in our relationship: community: collaborations: and is a complete waste of time and energy: time and energy of which cannot be recreated or restored: our resources of time and energy are so fragile and delicate, we do our best to not waste it in unnecessary functions. love more fuck more create more be more
☮ 27 sexuality, creativity, passion, inspiration, and love are the best tools ever for navigating our relationship, business and creative life long stamina: it’s not overrated, and if we are find ourselves resisting, we let go: give in: and do it as consciously as we can: we use our efforts to keep it balanced, to allow our smiles to shine bright
☮ 28 everything about this path is worth every effort it requires
☮ 29 each place and location we spend our time on: internet and in the real world are places where we desire to be. if you want to share in the adventure, connect with us: twitter or on this blog, find out what is going on, coming up, or ask questions, share adventures and inspirations: sharing is caring
☮ 30 it’s important for us to be surrounded by compassionate minds that are passionate and that appreciate conversations that enable all of our growth: we all need it, and we all need the practice of communicating it within our social groups: instead of taking disagreements to a place of pain body, frustration, violence and irritation, we take it to a level to provide growth and achievement: it’s all in the perspective, we place the effort to release ourselves of that emotional weight
☮ 31 our lifes adventures are not created in timelines, sometimes it takes us a few trials to discover the best route possible: it’s okay that somethings take longer, it’s all about the intention we have available and set each day: the rest will follow: we are thankful for somethings not working out the way we could originally imagine, the unknown and perserverence are always very rewarding
☮ 32 we are very passionate and compassionate hearts, seeking like minded others: for quality of life: moments, love, and adventures
☮ 33 mind fucking is awesome: and great for opening our minds: thank you #TrueBlood and #Lost
☮ 34 it’s important for us to have somebody to share this journey with: our friends and our relationships. we always make the best of our current situation, there are always social skills that can be acquired and shared with any kind of connection: there are always going to be obstacles, challenges, goals, visions, and feelings that will want to be shared while on our path: we value what we do have, without dwelling on what we don’t: we don’t wish to take for granted what is making our path possible, we do our best to add to it
☮ 35 we do not wish to burn bridges: however it’s literally impossible to make every event or action occur, it is mostly important to work with those that meet the most synergistic criterias, so that quality of life is maintained: our timings are all unique to our own, we honor our path always
☮ 36 we are not living this path to tell each other what or how to do what it is we both do do: we are simply not responsible for each others tasks and duties, we respect and understand each other’s work load and we allow each other to have our space to find the best times and opportunities to accomplish them. we give support and companionship through it all: our task load is ours and ours only to make happen, when we need assistance we communicate to seek the best path possible. when we are in need or have a request of each others attention for our task, we take the time to find out when an available time is so that we can accomplish the conversation in the most optimal time ever: this saves time, energy, and keeps us living longer in our creative flows:
☮ 37 friendship is key in business, networking and sharing adventures: we approach life with love and abundance, everything we need should come from self, the rest is entertainment, and long lasting and pleasurable adventures
☮ 38 we are taking the steps, making the sacrifices and guiding this adventure to be extraordinairy: we desire sustainability from within and not soley upon our shoulders: we give you our best at every level, and we hope and request that you will do the same. this journey requires a lot of love and living and working outside of the box: we desire peaceful creators and superheros: please understand our need for this, we will easily provide assistance, and it is always out of love and compassion: it may not be exactly what you believe you need to hear at that point, but as the guides of this adventure, this is what we ask of you, to continue to help us build community, adventures, and sustainability
☮ 39 we are products of our environment, and we adjust accordingly depending on how our environment is nourishing, and guiding us: we love all aspects of life, and are aware that some are not as easy and good for us as others
☮ 40 we check our self needs at the door, this is for us to pursue and enhance on our own day and time
☮ 41 takes about a year to develop any kind of relationship: love, friend, business
☮ 42 planet earth needs everybody: there is always a need for each and every one of us: look and listen closely, it’s needs are all around us
☮ 43 sex/sexuality is not something you only have to do in the bedroom behind closed doors, you can share it online: and it’s hot
☮ 44 deep and juicy sexual explorations are accomplished when there is patience, foundation, compassion, communication, and 100% belief in self and your lover
☮ 45 100% belief in ourselves and each other fuels a blissful and passionate relationship
☮ 46 bohemian sexual explorations require lightness and respect: we are currently creating an adult playground: an adult playground where we can all explore and participate as our flirting frolicking selves: we understand the excitement that sexuality plays in our lives, and yet we do request that you respect each and every participant: regardless of your sexual connection: with kindness, compassion, and respect: we will put you in time out: and if necessary we will ask you to leave the community
the rest to be continued……
to the pursuit!
georgette and shone
