boho 101: collaborations…life is all about the collaborations
…..pulling out the boho dictionary: all capitalized words have boho definitions, please use them as you come across them in the readings. if you should choose to accept this mission 
boho COLLABORATIONS:
1. the light version:
* when our multiple and diverse energies come together and share into a central or focused project/adventure/lifestyle/event; putting forward our strengths and love and passion, each entity is participating on what they love to do the most (in otherwords their ultimate strength and passion: with LOVE, capability, follow through, and desire). A win win situation is achieved for all parties, sharing and caring, growing, and giving our best efforts to make the best outcome possible always.
2. a more in depth version:
* ENERGY is an essential and the founding element in the boho COLLABORATIONS. each entity is relied upon to bring their best and highest ENERGY to the adventures always. this ENERGY is available to flow throughout the entire process free and uninhibited. Sharing of this ENERGY is crucial. We focus on fluid transitions. We wish for a light and soft path. There is only so much we can all take on at one time. Let’s stay grounded, motivated, stay progressive, and always be ready and available to ROCK IT! It’s all about getting the juicy. When too much of this free ENERGY lands in one place, and is held there, this disrupts the flow. ( essentially NO EGOS allowed ) let’s all share and use the energy as optimal as possible, and keep it pumping through the lifeline of the group.
“give your more to receive your less” -shone
“argue for your limitations and they’re yours” -richard bach from the book Illusions
we highly recommend that book, and just so you know, we do not receive any endorsements from outside parties for anything that we promote on our blog ever 
if this should ever happen, we’ll let you know. we share our love, that is all.
* act upon your highest self, whatever level that is in the current moment, we are aware that this changes, we are aware that all of us are not perfect. take bumps gracefully, and get right back to the loving feeling
* in boho land we are all adults. once we hit 18 it’s all growing up from there. if we wish to be treated as an adult, then it is in our best interest to do our best to interact as an adult. I’ll share this one time, please refer to this post if you should forget: pitty parties, temper tantrums, lack of effort and compassion for the group, aggression (instant exit!!!) blaming others, purposeful slander and pain, putting other down, etc. is not acceptable. you may find yourself in receiving TOUGH LOVE and in more extreme cases released.
* boho time is a place to share, to live, to grow, to express, and to follow your bliss. to find and experience the best in ourselves. it takes practice, it takes commitment. We have dedicated this lifetime just so you know.
* put your best foot forward, COMMUNICATE, LISTEN, SHARE, and anything is possible. we choose to live a life full of passion, creation, connection, adventure, and LOVE. our boho plan is just about set in place, we have been building foundation and establishing magical connections over the past 3 years (boho is turning 3 in january!!!!)
boho ENERGY: a fluid and grounding transition that is not captured or held in boxes or limitations. foundation, connection, and respect added into any project creates MAGIK. energy is a founding element in our projects. doing our best to keep ourselves optimal for creative magnificence. sleep, nutrition, sex makes happy bohos!!! and magnificent collaborations. honor time and energy. spread out too thin trying to capture too much at once = fail
boho COMMUNICATE: feedback and methods of communication are essential, criticism and critique can be accomplished in a way that continually motivates and provides love for all, be aware of what it is that you need to communicate, be clear, use specifics, so that when a point of interaction can be established, time is spent efficiently, and is time well spent, so that we can all get back to creating and exploring.
boho LISTEN: “to be aware of when you are listening: if you are talking to someone and are already thinking about what you are going to say next, you are not listening.” -Miguel Ruiz Jr. stay focused, prepare notes, and discuss your thoughts, when it is your turn to discuss. the more we all can listen, the more we all use our time the most efficiently.
boho SHARING: sharing is caring, inspiration, love, tips, compassion, it’s all part of the bigger picture. no need to hold on tight, there is always plenty to go around when the entire group is sharing lead and live with compassion, be aware and react accordingly to emotional reactions. let’s keep rocking the light!
boho LOVE: establish your love, develop, nurture, honor, prioritize, connect into the life stream of LOVE, add too it, but do not deplete it, many of the bohos request cyber hugs on twitter when they need it. find your way to stay connected and return the LOVE when you can.
NO EGOS: we are all on equal grounds, we are all here to be a part of the works, effort and ability, confidence and follow through, walk the walk! connect into the doing and being. egos are an archaic comfort zone, step out and connect and grow. we are an evolution of community. a project or group is only as strong as it’s weakest link, all it takes is practice, let go of judgments on yourself and others. stay humble, stay vulnerable, develop necessary skill sets as needed.
boho TOUGH LOVE: we have a time out in our boho world. essentially we will step back for our time and space when certain actions have not benefited the group. actions that have been entirely too selfish pull and tug energy from our collaborations. we still LOVE you, we just need to honor our path just the same.
How To get out of TOUGH LOVE: otherwise known as time out
get back to being you, an evolved version. ( we all need to evolve, there are no fingers being pointed here) bring a willingness to listen, a willingness to observe, and put your time in to establish an energy flow again. The length of time outs are up to you. We’ll be here ready and waiting for open arms and big hugs when you return!!
(please know that we are all held to these guidelines. WE all stand on the same level. )
* creative, passionate, and pleasured earthlings/aliens treat ALL with love.
* and all of this is of course once the COLLABORATIONS have been established. many of you ask, how do I COLLABORATE with bohos? that is another post but at least this gives you some kind of idea, and also the most essential……..patience
is there anything that you would like to add, or inquire about? we are in a state of evolution, we listen, we grow, we share. feel free to leave a comment. (emails and phone calls are NOT an option, at this time.) we can discuss this here, or catch us if you can
may the force be with you
@gcrush and shone
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We love love love Don Miguel Ruiz:
enjoy first a love prayer, take some time, breath, then allow the four agreements to set it.
