♥ boho 101
This is a place for us all to land, when perhaps we need some inspiration, fresh air, seek assistance, or deepen our skill sets. We have journeyed, grown, evolved, and have learned and have taken notes on how to navigate a blissful and passionate life. These are experiences and observations from our journey. We come in peace, only to share, not to infuriate. We are too often times reminded that if we cannot take some constructive and tender guiding criticism from the ones who truly love us, then how can we ever receive new and helpful insights. Evolving into a mature and spectacular creative adult takes work and life long maintenance and LOVE.
A thriving and magnificent online adult community is what we are creating. As the “moderators” of this community, we feel that it is necessary to share our personal guidelines. We may or may not fit well with everybody, and it is in our experiences that there is a plethora of life forms surrounding this journey. Our intentions are to connect with those with open minds, capability, and who truly feel that living life magically beats a life of servitude and dismay.
We welcome you to check it out, let us know what you think. We are here to listen and share universal growth curves and adventures with you all.
bohocrush
Life:
♥ “Creativity is maximized when you’re living in the present moment” –the lululemon manifesto
♥ enter on your unique level, as your own chosen adventure. each of us is vibrating at different frequencies, honor this level, nurture it, grow and evolve with it. remain compassionate, kind, and shine the love. welcome all with big open warm hugs
♥ patience, patience, patience: just when we think we don’t need more, BAM! there is never too much patience that an individual can have, believe it 
*there is a time and place, focus on the timing, the emotional reaction is misleading
♥ there is no such thing as perfection. if we are seeking perfection then we are seeking the end. we choose to ride this magical adventure for universal lifetimes. we do however give our best each and everyday, each task, each adventure, each project. we sleep well at night knowing that we always did our best. we can’t even begin to make everybody in this universe happy. so long as we live each day with the love in our heart, and know that the intentions that we are sending come from kindness, compassion, and love. then we can know that we have done our best.
♥ less is more: when we find ourself in a state of always wanting more (become aware) then find peace and comfort with what we have right in front of us. wanting and needing is an empty desire, one that is often times filled with over consumption and greediness. keep it real, deepen our connections, listen, love, enjoy. quality over quantity restores peace and grounding.
♥ continually push our comfort zones, learn more about ourself by allowing oneself new adventures and experiencing new things, these adventures are different and at unique levels for everybody, diversity is magical
♥ living in one’s creative self, is living in one’s highest energies, follow the flow and the life of bliss.
♥ to increase the depth of our life experience, we can flourish with an open and conscious mind, remembering to breathe and being kind to ourself; this will enable us to be kind to others.
♥ the universe is going to continue to throw all of us obstacles, all we can do is simply take the time to do each and everything well and right. practice, practice, practice. as we have heard, if you don’t have time to do it right the first time, when will you get the chance to correct it! (a quote I once read, and cannot find the author: help)
♥ a juicy, blissful, sexual adult life requires effort, maintenance, respect, and kindness
♥ love others more
♥ less is more, reduce, simplify, simplify, simplify: free the mind and the horizon
Community:
♥ honoring vitality of one’s physical body and of our planet earth body. moderation is the key. enjoy life, make the best and put all the love in the moments when we do celebrate, party, and climax. when we stay aware of our consciousness, we are able to avoid turbulent ups and downs, we are consistently lighter and more joyous earthlings. In turn we have so much more to share with ourselves and others. regardless of what event or entertainment we may find ourselves in, if we surround ourselves with love, we will desire connection over absolute recreational blow outs. remain safe at all times, and if not for ourself, for others.
♥ look forward to meeting new people always, establishing friendships with many people = community. Always meeting and exploring new perspectives is a lost art. the intimacy of what the online world provides for us is not to be taken for granted. it’s there, it’s real, it’s alive. look around, be an observer if we need some time to see how things flow. ask our fellow bohos for assistance, just be aware and present with how much we are asking. please don’t over depend on anyone. reach out and connect with many. see life through many perspectives.
Online Explorations:
♥ question everything: we are not capable of understanding the intentions of all. every engagement, every participation, familiar or new, engage with open ears and eyes. if we all follow along simply as sheep, then we can all be lead down any path, slow down, understand the value of the connection, honor your place and your path always. as a self expressing magically earthling, we need to be aware of our environment, our actions online and in the real world. we have the ability to choose, we have the ability to say yes or no.
♥ living and sharing 24/7 connections to a multitude of energetic beings who’s path are willingness to share light and love is a magnificent source of stimulation, engagement, and adventure. the source of energy is always consistent when all parties are willing to share and both give and receive the flow. allow ourself this time and this connection. set our life priorities, and provide an amount of time to connect.
♥ take the time to look further into the most interesting and amazing things you come across. the gems are usually hidden from the instant or first impression. online explorations are much more delightful than many give themselves the chance to discover. if you are always in a hurry, you are going to miss so much. make your time count
Respect:
♥ NO means NO
♥ relationships: each relationship we have has the potential to be a lifelong beautiful connection, sometimes we will remain in love and romantic, and others will shift to friendships and acquaintences. create our lifelong commitments with patience and understanding, care, and concern.
♥ we have found that conscious participations vs reactional participations are great ways to initiate and navigate magically delicious adventures when other hearts, souls, and energies are involved. find the time and self energy to seek and call out these interactions. we are human, (well most of us) we are all capable of anything, putting our best thoughts, our best energy, our best focus, will and does create the best results.
♥ we can all agree to disagree, diversity can and does co-exist and flourish, diversity is the spice of life, we can have strong moral values or beliefs just because we don’t agree, it doesn’t mean that a safe platform cannot be established, where all parties can listen, we can all be surprised what we can learn, and how hard we need to not keep trying, when we will just breathe, ground, and identify our truths as our own.
♥ welcome others to ask questions, for if they are receiving resistance or irritations, they may be discovering some insights to themselves. we can be kind and send love while others go through their processes. we do not need to react to their aggression, resistance, clinginess, neediness, frustrations, and pitty parties. these are lesser than higher energy behaviors. send each other love when we are all experiencing a process.
♥ we are going to experience akwardness while we are transitioning, it’s part of the process, become aware of our copings, look beyond our current vibrations, and actively participate in lifting our soul to higher vibrations. try it! practice, practice, practice
♥ trust, respect, and online integrity are earned: not achieved by association.
♥ you’ve got to find something you can truly love and respect outside of yourself. genuine appreciation for life forms bring inner calm and peace. It provides an opportunity for us to stabilize, while we ourselves are going through a life process. if we cannot love someone or something else more than ourselves, then we are truly missing out on a fundamental emotion of life. open up your heart and LOVE.
♥ provide, share, offer adventures, events, get togethers: online or in the real world with compassion. expectations and or attendance by guilt is a buzz killer. the key is to create the most amazing experience always, so that others desire to add themselves to the adventure. everybody has life to live, and navigating challenges and experiencing fairytales of their own. provide something for others that is way beyond just mediocrity!
♥ give others a chance; a chance to connect, a chance to find their path. your personal annoyances could stem from somewhere inside. we are the root of all of our interactions.
Communication: “argue for your limitations and they’re yours” -richard bach:
♥ communication is at the root of every single interaction and adventure we experience. by learning how to be clear and specific with our communications, we lighten the path, we grow and strengthen our connections. this takes time to develop. have some patience, and by all means practice, practice, practice.
♥ it’s all in the specifics. rambling on and on and talking in loops get us nowhere. sometimes we have not found the appropriate word that identifies our expression. reflect on this, read, write, listen to music, watch a movie; do whatever it is that you need to do to get back to basics. the basics are specific. remember in communication: less is more
Self-Explorations:
♥ continue our growth, add tools, constantly, a stimulated and engaged mind and body sustain refreshing adventures. we welcome suggestions for any books! we LOVE suggestions!
♥ there is always something to do, and not only that, something that needs to be done well. our avoidance of the issue does not make it go away. by providing the time to nurture and do our best to maintain optimal living, we can face everything with our best ever. each and every day is truly a magical gift and experience.
♥ continually be ready with open mind to accept and take on life’s personal challenges the best that we can, this takes awareness of our present moment. NEWS FLASH: ——-> we all have them
♥ it’s not what you do, or are willing to do for others, it’s the continual foundation for yourself that you nurture and share and offer to others
♥ no need to be defensive of your actions or of others. slow down, breathe…… Honor your path, reflect, and appreciate that you are going through a transition. this is often times reflected in the path of others, for it is in others that we can truly reflect and identify our own personal growth struggles. none of us have the time or energy to live other peoples lives. live and let live. be easy on yourself, be easy on others.
LOVE:
♥ say these words over and over and over and over and over again: unconditional LOVE
♥ all we need is LOVE
Sexuality:
♥ we are always around very open and very sexual beings. we LOVE it. sometimes we all need a sweet little reminder that just because some of us may or not be as sexual, that we do not push ourselves onto others. Polite asking and entering of another’s space is essential. We love all of you, and wish to create a place where not only diverse beings gather, but also diverse beings with diverse levels of willingness of participations.
♥ develop foundation, communication, trust, and respect = navigating the most juicy, blissful, spectacular adventures
♥ when encountering sexual thoughts and actions that are new and or either involve others in a sexual or of sexual interest, a strong and communicating foundation is essential. as a single or a couple, we can nurture and experience a diverse range of explorations and activities. we highly encourage the participants of our community to extend respect and kindness always. those who act without care or concern, can and will find themselves banned from our community. as a member of our community, we all must respect the foundation that has been put in place.
check back in on occasion, we’ll continue to share our insights and boho love as more develop
we LOVE you
bohocrush
