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UPCOMING EVENT: mixed crowd event, sexy, flirtatious, and breaking through comfort zones

Boy there is nothing like a crowded room, full of people with big smiles, diverse outfits, and magical sexual attractions!!! Regardless of where the attraction is coming from, I think it’s always flattering. And like Shone always says, one can always ask? And it’s quite nice when people do ask? Just as nice as it is to have the choice to say yes or no.

With that in mind, I think it’s quite enjoyable to navigate so many different social groups. I learn and experience so much, the variety of lifestyles, choices, and options around me, are incredible! It really makes for a wild imagination!

I’m often sometimes caught off guard however when I hear from people that they are not comfortable with entering other types of social groups. I guess for me I’ve never really found myself ever fully in one area or the other. All of my life, I have found my curiosity to be quite the leading force behind all of my explorations. I’ve just gotten use to it, and now always try to make the best of it.

What is it about it that causes discomfort? May I explore some of my unattached thoughts?

1. would one be uncomfortable because they are fighting their own desires or wants of which are not largely accepted by their peers, and the resistance internally causes discomfort and or frustration?

I’m just curious. I don’t think often enough these subjects are brought up enough.

2. would one be uncomfortable because of one’s prior experiences of people in certain social groups treating them poorly? So basically every single person who drives a red car, works in the city, and who likes chocolate is going to treat you the exact same way?

3. would one be uncomfortable because they are: so comfy they don’t want to be bothered, so comfy that they don’t try new things, and would just prefer to eat the same food every single day?!

4. other? can you share some light for me please? By no means am I an expert, I am merely just sharing my thoughts, so that questions can arise, and so that discussions can be started.

Part of our goal through bohocrush is to explore all kinds of worlds while doing our best to melt down boundaries between them. We simply could not imagine our lives without all of the many magical and amazing people who cross our paths.

So I guess the point I am getting at is this: Wether we are on the playa, or at a festival, wether we are at a restaurant or a concert, straight bar, wether we are at a fetish ball, or a gay bar…… off the grid, or on a boat: if we are holding an event…and you know you really like our parties, cause they are so much fun! then please don’t hold back because it might be a little out of your comfort zone. Instead, I would like to ask that you take this as an opportunity to try something new. To have belief in yourself, and with the silly and happy friends you have who are running you all over and around. I guarantee we won’t stop. We are going to take you all over the internet, and all over the planet. ;) We just wouldn’t want you to miss out on any magically delicious adventures. ;) So this is our request: Please give it a chance.

Our goal is to have most of our events all mixed crowd. ;) Like I said, we won’t stop. he he

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We are so excited to throw our next event at Neutron. They have welcomed us with open arms! and we ask our friends, our crowd, to do the same! Let’s have some fun, and let’s always remember, that we are ourselves regardless of where we are. We make the best of each and every magical opportunity presented to us!

  • fox
    Hope to see soon some photos of Bohoburlesque!

    And I'd say: Confront your comfort zone on a daily basis!

    Break the rules, become a rule-breaker!
    Real happiness lies always outside our comfort zone...(but within ourselves...!)
  • fox
    Hope to see soon some photos of Bohoburlesque!

    And I'd say: Confront your comfort zone on a daily basis!

    Break the rules, become a rule-breaker!
    Real happiness lies always outside our comfort zone...(but within ourselves...!)
  • uohhh, I love that mixed crowd talk.. so many people, especially in the artworld, have pretensions about being exclusive. They will never say that word, as to not feel like assholes, but if the shoe fits...
    There's so much secrecy, "let's just keep it to ourselves" I hate that. Let 'em all in–mix it up!
  • uohhh, I love that mixed crowd talk.. so many people, especially in the artworld, have pretensions about being exclusive. They will never say that word, as to not feel like assholes, but if the shoe fits...
    There's so much secrecy, "let's just keep it to ourselves" I hate that. Let 'em all in–mix it up!
  • promise to never stop teasing me!

    I can pretend not to be a freak when I need to! ha


    people need us freaking them up! this world would be so boring without freaks
  • promise to never stop teasing me!

    I can pretend not to be a freak when I need to! ha


    people need us freaking them up! this world would be so boring without freaks
  • I'm just teasing you! Although, if I ever get the figure for it I'll run around buck naked all the time for ya ;p

    I happen to have a lot of friends that aren't freaks for better or worse. I do like to freak up their lives as much as they let me.
  • I'm just teasing you! Although, if I ever get the figure for it I'll run around buck naked all the time for ya ;p

    I happen to have a lot of friends that aren't freaks for better or worse. I do like to freak up their lives as much as they let me.
  • very good point

    ha ha, we aren't buck neekkid ;) and only sometimes ;) and only a small portion of us run around with less clothing ;) boy do I wish everybody did!!!! that would be awesome!

    and all of our friends are freaks! ;) we love our friends, we love to be around all of them

    I know....we shouldn't love our friends so much...but we do! and we always will

    and I would totally love to get dressed up in a suit and do a presentation! bring it on! :)

    we like to stir the pot! ;)

    silly little butterflies!
  • very good point

    ha ha, we aren't buck neekkid ;) and only sometimes ;) and only a small portion of us run around with less clothing ;) boy do I wish everybody did!!!! that would be awesome!

    and all of our friends are freaks! ;) we love our friends, we love to be around all of them

    I know....we shouldn't love our friends so much...but we do! and we always will

    and I would totally love to get dressed up in a suit and do a presentation! bring it on! :)

    we like to stir the pot! ;)

    silly little butterflies!
  • Well to define what causes discomfort first you must realize exactly what comfort is. By the dictionary comfort is defined as;
    1) a state of physical ease and freedom from pain or constraint,
    2) consolation for grief or anxiety.

    Comfort comes from something that either physically or mentally calms you. It is a familiar feeling, environment or state of mind. That is why we call it the comfort ZONE. For someone who has never been nude around anybody but their parents and maybe a GF/BF or two being in a crowded place bare naked is as far from a familiar or normal feeling or state of being.. that is discomfort... Likewise someone who spends their life running around crowded partied buck nekkid and handing out spanking to everyone probably wouldn't feel so comfortable dressed up in a business suit giving a presentation to a bunch of stuffy corporate stiffs.
    There is no list you could write to list all the things that make people uncomfortable because it will be different for every last person, it is whatever they are not used to doing or have tried... The trick here is that discomfort isn't always a bad thing because discomfort is synonymous with adrenaline which is fairly close to EXCITEMENT!!!! The trick is does the amount of excitement you get from the act counter and override the discomfort. For some then answer is no, they don't like adrenaline and they are not really excited by such so it's not worth it, they will never enjoy things that discomfort them. Some people have certain things that excite and arouse them and even though they are not comfortable the excitement for out weighs it all.

    Also if you think about it that corporate meeting must be perdy exciting to the client who has million dollar contracts riding on it! It's all about different strokes baby ;p
  • Well to define what causes discomfort first you must realize exactly what comfort is. By the dictionary comfort is defined as;
    1) a state of physical ease and freedom from pain or constraint,
    2) consolation for grief or anxiety.

    Comfort comes from something that either physically or mentally calms you. It is a familiar feeling, environment or state of mind. That is why we call it the comfort ZONE. For someone who has never been nude around anybody but their parents and maybe a GF/BF or two being in a crowded place bare naked is as far from a familiar or normal feeling or state of being.. that is discomfort... Likewise someone who spends their life running around crowded partied buck nekkid and handing out spanking to everyone probably wouldn't feel so comfortable dressed up in a business suit giving a presentation to a bunch of stuffy corporate stiffs.
    There is no list you could write to list all the things that make people uncomfortable because it will be different for every last person, it is whatever they are not used to doing or have tried... The trick here is that discomfort isn't always a bad thing because discomfort is synonymous with adrenaline which is fairly close to EXCITEMENT!!!! The trick is does the amount of excitement you get from the act counter and override the discomfort. For some then answer is no, they don't like adrenaline and they are not really excited by such so it's not worth it, they will never enjoy things that discomfort them. Some people have certain things that excite and arouse them and even though they are not comfortable the excitement for out weighs it all.

    Also if you think about it that corporate meeting must be perdy exciting to the client who has million dollar contracts riding on it! It's all about different strokes baby ;p
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