Boy there is nothing like a crowded room, full of people with big smiles, diverse outfits, and magical sexual attractions!!! Regardless of where the attraction is coming from, I think it’s always flattering. And like Shone always says, one can always ask? And it’s quite nice when people do ask? Just as nice as it is to have the choice to say yes or no.
With that in mind, I think it’s quite enjoyable to navigate so many different social groups. I learn and experience so much, the variety of lifestyles, choices, and options around me, are incredible! It really makes for a wild imagination!
I’m often sometimes caught off guard however when I hear from people that they are not comfortable with entering other types of social groups. I guess for me I’ve never really found myself ever fully in one area or the other. All of my life, I have found my curiosity to be quite the leading force behind all of my explorations. I’ve just gotten use to it, and now always try to make the best of it.
What is it about it that causes discomfort? May I explore some of my unattached thoughts?
1. would one be uncomfortable because they are fighting their own desires or wants of which are not largely accepted by their peers, and the resistance internally causes discomfort and or frustration?
I’m just curious. I don’t think often enough these subjects are brought up enough.
2. would one be uncomfortable because of one’s prior experiences of people in certain social groups treating them poorly? So basically every single person who drives a red car, works in the city, and who likes chocolate is going to treat you the exact same way?
3. would one be uncomfortable because they are: so comfy they don’t want to be bothered, so comfy that they don’t try new things, and would just prefer to eat the same food every single day?!
4. other? can you share some light for me please? By no means am I an expert, I am merely just sharing my thoughts, so that questions can arise, and so that discussions can be started.
Part of our goal through bohocrush is to explore all kinds of worlds while doing our best to melt down boundaries between them. We simply could not imagine our lives without all of the many magical and amazing people who cross our paths.
So I guess the point I am getting at is this: Wether we are on the playa, or at a festival, wether we are at a restaurant or a concert, straight bar, wether we are at a fetish ball, or a gay bar…… off the grid, or on a boat: if we are holding an event…and you know you really like our parties, cause they are so much fun! then please don’t hold back because it might be a little out of your comfort zone. Instead, I would like to ask that you take this as an opportunity to try something new. To have belief in yourself, and with the silly and happy friends you have who are running you all over and around. I guarantee we won’t stop. We are going to take you all over the internet, and all over the planet.
We just wouldn’t want you to miss out on any magically delicious adventures.
So this is our request: Please give it a chance.
Our goal is to have most of our events all mixed crowd.
Like I said, we won’t stop. he he
follow the rainbows butterflies and bunnies
We are so excited to throw our next event at Neutron. They have welcomed us with open arms! and we ask our friends, our crowd, to do the same! Let’s have some fun, and let’s always remember, that we are ourselves regardless of where we are. We make the best of each and every magical opportunity presented to us!

This entry was posted on Monday, September 22nd, 2008 at 12:46 am and is filed under community and tagged with adventure, bohemian burlesque, comfort zones, compassion, features, gay and lesbian bar, love, mixed crowds, neutron. You can follow any responses to this entry through the RSS 2.0 feed.
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